We arrived in Phuket at 1220am after a traumatic journey from Chiang Mai I was sick again. Really sad to leave Chiang Mai and it wasn't helped by the grossness of our airport hotel in Phuket easily the worst hotel we have stayed in so far we were really glad it was just for one night. The next morning we transferred to the Shanti Lodge which was absolutely gorgeous like an oasis full of b

CELTA week 3. I guess this has been the most challenging week so far with so much going on that all I could think about at the end of each day was 'Will I ever get my 8 hours of sleep' That's just because the average sleeping hours have decreased to around 6.5hnight and I honestly cannot function well if I'm sleepdeprived. And to quote Hema one of the fellow trainees we should not only wo

Yesterday the 12th we left Lake Atitlan and spent the night in Antigua.Today we spent all day traveling to El Tunco El Salvador one of the best surf spots in the world. Unfortunately the main cable for the internet and land lines was stolen was we have terrible internet service. Hope to be blogging again soon. We are safe and happy.

We started our journey early this morning at the airport in Philadelphia. Flight was great and arrived on time in Denver. Our first venture was to Sheplers in Denver so that Drew could check out some western wear there. He has a thing for belt buckles and found 3 there that he liked along with a new cowboy hat. From there we headed toward Estes Park and on the way we stopped in Boulder. There

I arrived at Boston and spent the day exploring the city centre which was really nice. It was definitely difficult to walk around all day in the humidity but I enjoyed it nonetheless. That night and the following day I stayed with another 2p2er who again was super friendly and hospitable and had a great house. After that I headed to Cambridge which is basically part of Boston as far as I coul

I'd a very lazy dayAfter getting up I talked with my parents for almost an hour but I was glad to see my niece. Four teeth alreadyThen after a quick luch I lay at the pool for almost two hours with my book.Ulrike and I went to Andover and had a nice coffee at Starbucks.Tomorrow I'll work for 14 hours but on Monday I'll have a day off.

CUSCO DAY 3Saturday August 14thToday was going to be another down day except for our Inca Trail briefing at 7pm. We woke up pretty early as usual and I finally got a good night's sleep but then lazed around the room for a while before going to breakfast. We'd made a shopping list of things we needed before leaving for the trek including gloves for me soroche pills just in case another

Actualizacion super rapida .. estoy bien.. No facil acceso a internet ..Saludos

Wauw de Galapagos....wat een bijzondere plek is dat En ja er zijn veel toeristen en sommigen denken soms net even toch wat dichterbij een dier te gaan staan dan de regels voorschrijven maar over het algemeen loopt iedereen netjes volgens de parkregels over de paden op deze paradijselijke eilanden Gelukkig weten we tegenwoordig beter dan in Darwins tijd op welke manier we de natuur daar het

Olympos

Meteora

We arrived at Pat's sister and hubby's place around noon today. Breda and Adrian. I am thankful we were able to stay with them a day earlier than planned. We were able to get a spot on the midnite ferry that was running on time No sleep of course so we are both feeling very tired tonite. Never did camp in Springdale it was wet and cold and we took a room at a local inn. The next day we tr

A very early call at 6.15 for a 7.45 departure.The whole coach is very tired after a great night last night.Pam and I had a quick bit to eat at Tim Hortons fruit yogurt coffee and a shared bagel. Far too healthy in my opinion.Then off out of Toronto heading towards Kingston.The freeway is 401 4 because there are 4 lanes. We head north along the shore of lake Ontario.Our first stop is at the big

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Trying to add pics but none of these computers are allowing me. As soon as I can I'll add a few. So before we start the teaching there's still a little time during the weekend for some fun in Morelia. Spent the weekend at the tequila sunset hostel which I would definitely recommend to anyone who plans on passing through. The guys who work there are great you meet interesting people and it's cl

Colourful mailboxes along Big Sur, California, Photo by Michael Burm

No matter where, when, how or why we travel, there is always someone willing to give us unsolicited advice. What one piece of this “advice” (if any) have you listened to and carried with you throughout your subsequent travels? Please include why it has stuck around.

Chris Guillebeau

Art of Non-Conformity

A good friend tells me regularly, “Don’t forget to breathe.” When we’re first starting to travel, this is never a problem. Everything is new and magical and foreign. But over time, the foreign becomes familiar, and that’s when we forget to breathe. I can forget to pack almost anything or make almost any travel mistake—if you can name it, I’ve done it—but forgetting to breathe means that I forget to enjoy my surroundings.

I’m writing you from Minsk, Belarus at the moment, where it’s 2am local time. There’s a storm brewing outside my window and a small bottle of vodka on my hotel room desk. It’s my 150th country, but at the moment I can honestly say I feel just as excited as when I started. So far, the breathing is good.

Dave

The Longest Way Home

‘Never take expectations of a place with you.’

This is ten times harder to do in reality than in thought. Who amongst us does not plan about visiting a place, or expects to see something in particular? A year’s work tied up in the excitement of visiting Paris in the Fall, only to see the Eiffel tower or Notre Dame covered in scaffolding for repair.

It’s taken me years to try and keep my expectations low. It’s a very hard thing to do. When we travel to a place we can’t help but be excited. To see it quashed by events outside of our control can ruin a trip, and a memory.

Go in with an open mind, and you will be enriched.

There’s something to be said for not planning too much. But, still we go there for a reason. The way I’ve managed to really not take expectations with me is by knowing what’s there to see. But, by not expecting to see it.

Go in with an open mind, and you will be enriched. Turn your head to an angle and look at something from a different perspective. If Notre Dame has scaffolding on it, then no problems. Take photos of the people restoring history. And, make it something else to cherish!

Buddha, Photo by Anthony Cobban

Michael Schneider

OtherGuy’sDime Blog

As I was preparing to leave for a teaching position in Kenya, a neighbor suggested I contact her ex-parish priest, Father George, who was working in Nairobi with the Missionaries of Charity, an agency run by the Nobel-prize winner Mother Theresa. She thought he could provide me with a perspective on the country distinct from those of travel agents, tour guides, and bus drivers. Was she right, as the day I spent with Father George (described in Father George, Poverty Tourism, and the Slums of Kibera) was one of the most emotional, enlightening, and transformative experiences of my traveling life.
Because of her advice, whenever I now travel or work overseas one of the first things I do is try to obtain names and addresses of locals in the host country, either through friends, family, or the Alumni Association at my school. Then I send email letting them know when I am coming, how long I will be there, and inquiring if we might get together to help me learn about local customs and culture.

For example, I just returned from a three-month job in Bhutan where I spent many happy hours sharing stories with and learning from a recent alumnus of my school, along with her friends and family. They provided an introduction to Himalayan Buddhist culture that was invaluable to my understanding of the country and its people. Spending time with locals is a wonderful way to start the process of integrating into your new home.

Andy Jarosz

501 Places

It’s up to me to decide when my desire to go [traveling] is strong enough to put the excuses aside and just do it.

I remember speaking to a travelling friend more than 20 years ago, and I was telling him about the places I was going to visit. He asked me when I would go there, and as a young student at the time, I mentioned that I needed to graduate first, make some money, pay off my debts and then consider my travels. He told me that however many years pass, I’ll always have a list of things that I can wait for before I choose to travel. It’s up to me to decide when my desire to go is strong enough to put the excuses aside and just do it.

And it’s so true. Settling into new job, sorting out the mortgage, the promotion, the new car, Christmas, the list goes on. There are always ‘reasons’ that can be applied to put a trip on hold. It’s only when I commit to going (yes, buy the ticket and tell people of my plans) that I start to see that those ‘reasons’ have never really held me back as much as I thought. It was up to me all along.

Anthony Bianco

The Travel Tart

The piece of unsolicited travel advice that’s always stuck with me was when I caught a ferry from Algerciras in Spain to Tangier in Morocco. Tangier is infamous for it’s hustlers. When I got there, I had to undergo a mysterious luggage and bus transfer procedure. A hustler approached me to give me useless advice that I didn’t request, need or want about this procedure, and I minded my own business. When it was time to go, the hustler demanded I pay him for his ’services’. When I told him he must be joking and wouldn’t be receiving any of my hard earned shrapnel, he pointed his finger towards the sky and said “WELL THEN, I HOPE THAT MY GOD MAKES YOUR BUS CRASH AND YOU’RE THE ONLY ONE WHO DIES!’ and then went off the find another poor traveller to harass!

I thought this was the funniest thing anyone had said to me! Anyway, I’m still here, so his god must like me! I’ve never forgotten this experience, and his useless travel advice!

Jeanne

Soul Travelers 3

A year sounds like such a long time when one is planning a round the world tour, but you’d be amazed at how fast it goes by and how much time transit and getting oriented can take.

The very best unsolicited advice that we got before setting out on our open ended, non-stop family world trip in 2006, was from several folks who had done RTW trips for a year. ALL of them said that a year was just not enough time, they wish they had taken more time and spent longer in places to immerse and get to know it better.

That opened my mind and made me plan an open-ended world tour over many years. A year sounds like such a long time when one is planning a round the world tour, but you’d be amazed at how fast it goes by and how much time transit and getting oriented can take. We are getting very close to entering our fifth year of travel and even that time has zipped by. Travel keeps one living in the present moment, so one loses all sense of time, but one also becomes very aware that time is our most precious commodity and is the only true wealth that we own. In this fast paced world, we are so grateful that we have given ourselves this gift of time and I so appreciate that I was given this information before planning the details of our trip.

Carl Beien

Two Stops Past Siberia

“Traveling is a balancing act, it is a push and pull. We must always decide whether to deepen our experience in one place, or to move on and see more.”

This came to me from an Israeli man named Dotan in a hostel called Los Amigos on the island of Flores in Guatemala. He was one of those lone backpackers, the kind who wouldn’t have it any other way. He told me about getting stuck for 3 months in Varanasi. He said he’d never have chosen to do that, but in the end, the depth of his experience there led to his greatest travel experience ever.

Who hasn’t planned a short trip with every possible destination penciled in – only to find themselves exhausted by cities and ‘ruined’ by all the ruins? Inevitably, my solution to this mad dash on asphalt and rail has always been to just slow down, and see how much more there is to see by just staying put.

The Wizard Of Oz: There’s No Place Like Home

I’ve now been in Naryn city, Kyrgyzstan for just over a year, with about nine months more to go. In the Peace Corps, we say we’re not tourists, but that’s not true. We’re just long term travelers – temporary residents; what we’ve really done is made the decision to hunker down, and get as deep as we can.

Hannah Barth

Hannah in Motion

Mothers generally give the best unsolicited advice. Mine’s been reminding me since I first left home to travel at the age of 16 that, in the words of Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz, “There’s no place like home…”

There are a lot of travel blogs out there today about that moment when you realize you’ve been running from something. Once you face that, and face that the reason you’ve been traveling maybe hasn’t been 100% pure, you realize that home can be just as much of an adventure as any foreign land; sometimes more so.

Matt Long

LandLopers

Before leaving for my first trip to Thailand a few years ago, a good friend gave me just a few, simple words of advice. He said to slow down and look. At the time, I had no idea what he meant, but as I found myself navigating the tiny alleyways of Bangkok, I began to understand his Delphic statement. Before that trip, I was a frantic traveler, guidebook in hand and always looking for the next “sight.” While I was in Thailand, though I did take the time to stop and observe, to ask questions and to truly try to understand more about the country.

These words have stuck with me ever since and this method of slower travel coupled with engaging as many people in conversation as I can, has transformed my travel experiences. Rather than just ticking off “must-see” attractions from a list, I try to live in the countries I visit to understand what makes them tick. It is this process of cultural understanding that makes travel so special and has forever changed my own view of the world.

lisa Shusterman

One World – One Trip

Over the years I have learned to take unsolicited travel advice with a grain of salt. When I was younger (and thought I knew better than everyone) I took all of that advice and let it flow in one ear and out the other. What could anyone tell me that I didn’t already know? As I got older and came to accept that I didn’t know everything, I listened to what others had to say and learned to keep what I wanted and leave the rest behind.

When I was younger (and thought I knew better than everyone) I took all of that [unsolicited] advice and let it flow in one ear and out the other. What could anyone tell me that I didn’t already know?

I remember when my husband and I were planning our year-long trip around the world, people would freely offer their thoughts, opinions and ideas. Negative thoughts about what we were about to do were discarded without being given any energy at all. Positive thoughts were held onto and used to reinforce our conviction about the adventure we about to embark on. Ideas for the most part were ignored, as most people had no concept of the planning process we were in the midst of. But every once in a while, someone would say something that would spark our interest. A discussion at a local outdoor market one day lead us to disclose our itinerary in India. When my husband mentioned that we were planning on going to Shimla, the other person said, “Oh, you don’t want to go there; go to McLeodganj instead.” We went home and that evening looked into McLeodganj. It looked great and we decided to go there. It turned out to be one of our favorite places. There are often gems in what other people have to say (especially other travelers), you just have sift through a lot of crap in order to find it.

The one piece of unsolicited advice I will offer that you will hear again and again is to travel light. Pack light to begin with and then remove half of the contents of your bag. Now you’re ready to go.

Debby Lee

Tea, Sugar, a Dream

“Bring half the clothes and twice the money” was some unsolicited advice that my grandmother gave me well before I even had a travel bug. But fortunately, I listened, and I follow her advice where ever possible.

For example, I once did a five-month solo journey through Europe, and started out with a large backpack; and plenty of money in my bank account. I actually thought that I wasn’t bringing a lot.

For example, I once did a five-month solo journey through Europe, and started out with a large backpack; and plenty of money in my bank account. I actually thought that I wasn’t bringing a lot. But, after the first few weeks, I realized that even a large backpack was too much. It was heavy, and there were things in there that I just wasn’t using. So, I started shipping things back home to lighten my load, including the large pack itself. And, with my extra money, I bought a smaller pack, about half the size. It was so much nicer to travel this way. It was quite freeing.

The extra money also came in handy again, for example, in one country where it was actually colder than I anticipated, and did not have a warm sweater with me. So, I bought one. Now I have a genuine sweater from that country that I still have, and wear, to this day.

Thanks, Grandma. Your advise has made my travels much more enjoyable and meaningful.

Sherry Ott

Ottsworld

Before I left on my travels in 2006 I knew I wanted to take lots of photos. So I went out to buy the largest compact flash cards I could, thinking I wanted a lot of space to store my photos for the year and between uploads. However some kind person gave me a bit of advice when buying my CF cards – they told me to not buy just one massive one… but buy multiple smaller ones to add up to the space I wanted. I thought this sounded weird at first as I didn’t want to carry around a bunch of CF cards in my camera bag adding up to 16Gig. When asked why they suggested such a thing, they simply responded, “If you lose it – you don’t lose everything.” I still wasn’t completely sold on the idea, but I did by 4 different cards and took off on my trip.

While in New Zealand hiking the Franz Josef Glacier, a backpacking friend unfortunately learned that lesson the hard way. He had been traveling for 6 months and had all of his photos from the last 3 months on one card. While hiking he was changing out cards, lost his grip due to the cold and the full card fell down a crevice never to be found again. Three months of photos lost.

I actually have 6 cards now that I carry – and I change them around frequently just in case one of the cards ends up in a crevice!

Jamaican Jerk Chicken – Street Style, Photo by Diny Patterson

Jon Brandt

Travel Guy

I was once on a family vacation in Jamaica. Our guide from the hotel took us out on a random and strange trip to visit an abandoned house that was being built by Bob Marley until he died. No tourists were within 40 miles and we were told to try “Uncle Sam’s” fried chicken for lunch. It was a little cart by the water, [the chicken] cooked by an old toothless guy, and though the “kitchen” looked dirty, locals were crowded around. Sure enough, it was the best fried chicken I’ve ever eaten, so golden and crispy on the outside and juicy on the inside. The moral of the story is, never be afraid to try the local grub, even if you’re away from sanitary conditions. It might be one of your best meals.

Editors Note: I would like to thank all of the contributors who have participated in this panel discussion. There is definitely great advice here from everyone. To the readers – take with you the advice which fits best and leave the rest. There will be another reader along soon who will find the “leftovers” useful too. Thank you again to all!

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Seattle, Washington has it’s pluses – they just weren’t enough for Angie and Allen. In 2009, these two, like others before them, quit the day job routine to hit the road. From South America to Asia, they have been logging miles and blogging entries.( Plus, it seems they like Sumo Wrestling.)

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HiSorry its been a while Ive been super busy. So I left Porto to go to Sevilla and at the hostel I met an awesome newlywed couple from Australia. We went out together every night to tapas bars and to see a mediocre flamenco show. The layout of the city was pretty cool small windy streets and beautiful houses with flowers all over the balconies but what surprised me were all of the very posh