A gambling addict has described the moment she won 127,000 as the worst day of her life a move that led her down a path of debt, destruction and homelessness.
Lisa Walker, 48, from Essex said her addiction, which started with a poker tournament win, eventually led to bankruptcy, even losing her family home in the process.
The Peer Aid support worker has issued a message to others on the serious dangers of betting as Gamble Aware today release a new campaign on harms prevention for women.
Lisa was first introduced to gambling when her dad and grandad played cards together, but back then she would bet no more than 50p.
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Even as a child, she remembers the rush she got from winning something as little as 1. Once she turned 18 and it was legal for her to enter casinos, Lisa's habit escalated drastically.
A big win in February 2001 became the start of a nightmare that would last two decades.
Aged 29 at the time, Lisa won a jackpot of 127,000 at Rendezvous casino and she describes it as the "worst day of my life".
"My heart was pumping in my chest and all I could think about was how in a couple of minutes every single person in this casino was going to know that I had won that jackpot," she told Jam Press.
"As the dealer slowly unveiled players cards, he got to mine and slowly revealed the royal flush.
"In a flash, alarms went off, people were screaming, the casino manager ran up to me telling me theyd have to check the cameras right away, and random strangers were running up to me congratulating me.
It was the worst day of my life.
"What should have been the best day of my life, some 20 years ago, led to a journey of despair, hopelessness, and having an awful, awful gambling addiction.
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Lisa became mesmerised by the atmosphere in casinos, overwhelmed by the tables and the bright lights, the smartly-dressed people and, thanks to the clever design of these spaces, the fact she couldn't tell what time of day it was.
Her newly-pocketed winnings enabled her to gamble much more frequently, typically four to five times a week.
She said: I became reckless with money.
On nights where I would usually only take 50 to a casino, I took 100, 200 or 500.
"With that came greater hours spent gambling, which I reckon was in the region of around 8-10 hours each day.
"Whether that was in the casinos, the dog tracks, betting shops, anywhere.
"I truly loved it. I loved the buzz it used to give me, but naturally with them came the crushing lows.
"Thats what it means to be a compulsive gambler, being truly unable to stop.
Even if I had won a 1million that night, it wouldnt have mattered because one way or another, every single pound would have gone back to gambling.
Lisa estimates that she has lost up to half a million pounds over the past two decades.
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She said: Throughout the years, given my wins and losses, I would say that Ive lost over 400,000-500,000.
"This would be from both losing the large win but also from gambling away the money that I got from re-mortgaging my house, not just once but three times, to continue to have the money to gamble and spent every single penny I had towards gambling.
The dangerous habit eventually left Lisa in sizeable debt so severe that she was forced to declare bankruptcy and sell off her house to pay it off.
She had previously sold her home but the sale didnt cover her debts, leaving her account still in the red.
She said: It's extremely difficult to think about it right now, and to think about all the things I could have had, whether that was my own little house, being debt free, being mortgage-free by the age of 30.
"But I didnt, and instead I chose this life of self-destruction.
"It was hell, well and truly, hell on earth.
Gambling also affected the support worker's health, as she struggled to sleep most nights, lying awake wondering where she was going to get more money to gamble with.
And her relationships suffered, too.
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Lisa said: It also resulted in the breakdown of a marriage and ultimately resulted in my children and I being forced to move into a hostel for a period of time.
It wasnt until her wedding night in 2018 to her third (and current) husband, Garry, that Lisa realised she desperately needed help.
She said: We had decided to have our wedding in Las Vegas and despite 15 of my closest family friends flying over to enjoy the wedding with both me and my husband, I spent the entire night playing the slots till 6am not leaving for a moment to enjoy their company or to enjoy the celebration.
It was when we returned from Las Vegas that I finally made the conscious effort to reach out and to get help from a close friend from someone that I knew at Gamblers Anonymous.
Lisa is one of 50,000 women who have now registered to self-exclude from all online gambling sites through GAMSTOP, a free tool for people living in the UK.
Since the pandemic struck, the proportion of women self-excluding through the service has been rising; in March, 26% of all registrants to GAMSTOP were women, which has risen to 31% by September.
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According to Gamcare, the number of women reporting gambling problems is increasing at double the rate of men, but only 1% of women who experience gambling related harm contact the National Gambling Helpline.
Lisa is sharing her story to raise awareness of the life-altering impact of a gambling addiction and to stop it being seen as such a taboo.
She said: No one ever confronted me about my money problems during my addiction.
"Problem gambling is a very easily-hidden addiction, unlike drink or drugs.
"Obviously with both of them you have signs to look out for.
Lisa has been in recovery for three-and-a-half years and counsels others who are suffering with similar struggles.
She is also in the process of establishing a women-only group for compulsive gamblers, which she hopes to launch within the coming months.
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Lisa added: What I have found is that women dont feel that they can talk about their addiction, with it often being seen as a male issue.
I have spoken with many women who dont feel they can go to support meetings, and I find it so upsetting that somebody could feel that way, as though they cant even seek help.
I hope things change and if we can increase the visibility of women who are recovering in the media that could make a big difference.
To people starting out, I just say be very, very careful. It is a slippery slope.
"You can control it and you can put it to bed. It is bloody hard work though.
"So if youre struggling, dont struggle alone and reach out."
According to GambleAware, losing track of time, spending more than was affordable and keeping gambling a secret were key warning signs of an unhealthy addiction to betting.
Its own figures show the number of women receiving treatment for gambling has doubled in the past five years, up from 1,134 in 2015/16 to 2,423 in 2020/21, according to data from the National Gambling Treatment Service.
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GambleAware chief executive Zoe Osmond said: "Our research shows women may not be aware they are starting to experience harm from gambling or, may be worried about reaching out for support due to stigma or shame.
"That's why our campaign highlights the warning signs to look out for, so we can support women who gamble and prevent them from developing gambling harms."
Gambling addiction expert and counsellor Liz Karter said: "Gambling behaviours manifest themselves differently in women than men.
"For example, we know the easy availability of online gambling leads many women to games which appear innocent and socially acceptable.
"The games seem safe and familiar, as they are so similar to the free play digital games we are all now used to playing.
"In addition, the hopes of financial gains can prove a powerful motivator.
"While gambling doesn't always lead to harm, it's vital women are aware of early warning signs including losing track of time, incurring increasing debt, or a tendency to hide gambling from others or gambling to forget their problems."
The NHS has an online help page for people worried they may be addicted to gambling.
You can take a test and answer a few questions to work out if your betting habits are under control.
GamCare also offers free information, support and counselling for problem gamblers in the UK.
The National Gambling Helpline is available on 0808 8020 133 and operates 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
If you live in England or Wales, are aged 16 or over and have complex problems related to gambling, you can also refer yourself to the National Problem Gambling Clinic.
If you live in England or Wales, are aged 13 or over and have complex problems related to gaming, you can refer yourself to the National Centre for Gaming Disorders.
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