Growing up, Brandon Tong longed for a brother or sister. Raised by a devoted single mother, Dung (known as Donna) working two jobs to keep the family afloat, he struggled to make friends.<\/p>\n
[Mum] worked very hard to support me, Brandon, now 26 and from San Diego, told The Mirror. She owned a dollar store and also worked repairing watches. She juggled so much.<\/p>\n
But as an only child, Brandon sometimes felt isolated.<\/p>\n
He said: I was unbelievably lonely when I was a child. A brother or sister was pretty much all I wanted. But mum wasnt really dating or anything so another child never came.<\/p>\n
I thought it would be really cool to have a brother.<\/p>\n
And when he was at school, Brandons loneliness was even more acute.<\/p>\n
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I was a bit lacking in social skills. I didnt really know how to make friends and I was the kid who got picked on, he recalled.<\/p>\n
Being raised by a strong woman, Brandon never knew much about his dad. He had a few photos of his father holding him as a baby, and received birthday cards for a few years. But the cards stopped around the time he was in primary school.<\/p>\n
Luckily, he slowly came out of his shell as he reached adolescence. But even with some friends by his side, Brandon still struggled at school.<\/p>\n
School never went well for me. I had a big social anxiety problem and never got my high school diploma, he said.<\/p>\n
Brandon decided to drop out of school at 17, before working part time in retail and as a sushi chef. In time, he went back to college, hoping things would be different. But when he was put on academic probation, he knew this path wasnt for him.<\/p>\n
Thats when I joined the army, he said. My lifes been a lot better since.<\/p>\n
And from there, things finally started to fall into place. While stationed in Korea, Brandon met his now-wife, Viktoria. The pair married in 2018 and moved across the country to San Diego, where she is from.<\/p>\n
Happy with his lot, Brandon was never particularly interested in tracking down his biological father.<\/p>\n
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My wife was always bothered by it but I wasnt very curious, he said.<\/p>\n
But one day, the pair saw a TV advert for a home DNA test kit and had an idea.<\/p>\n
I was interested to find out more about the scientific side of things, like which diseases I might be susceptible to and my ethnicity. So me and my wife got a package deal and bought two kits at the same time.<\/p>\n
The kits arrived and Brandon and Viktoria did their swabs. When the results came back, Brandon wasnt particularly surprised.<\/p>\n
It told me I was mostly Vietnamese with some Chinese heritage but I pretty much expected that, he said.<\/p>\n
It wasnt until Brandon logged onto his account on the 23&Me website to fill in details about health conditions that he discovered something incredible.<\/p>\n
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When he clicked on his profile, Brandon had a relative listed, who had also taken a home DNA test - his half brother, who shared a biological father.<\/p>\n
I was so shocked. I didnt know if it was real. I did remember my Mum saying something about my dad starting a new life but it never crossed my mind that it would be possible to meet any siblings, he said.<\/p>\n
After the initial shock wore off, Brandon started having doubts<\/p>\n
I was hesitant to reach out to him. I didnt feel like it was natural and I didnt think it would be something he wanted to do, he said.<\/p>\n
Meanwhile, he and Viktoria took a belated honeymoon trip to Europe, travelling across the continent. But when he landed in Barcelona, he got another surprise.<\/p>\n
My brother actually messaged me. I got it right as I turned on my phone when we got off the flight. I was like, Oh my God, he wants to talk to me.<\/p>\n
His name was Ben, he was 16 and living on the other side of the country in Massachusetts, where Brandon had lived when he was very young.<\/p>\n
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We were talking online for a long time. He didnt know much about his family either. He was excited about turning 18 so he could start doing his own thing, Brandon said.<\/p>\n
When Brandon told his mum about the wonderful news, she was over the moon.<\/p>\n
I think she was more excited than me, he joked.<\/p>\n
Do you have a long lost family story? Did you discover a family member late in life? Send your stories to jessica.taylor@reachplc.com<\/a> <\/p>\n With the coronavirus pandemic scuppering plans around the world, and while they waited for Ben to turn 18, the half brothers had to put their plans to meet on hold. <\/p>\n But just last week, Ben was travelling through San Diego with some friends and arranged to meet Brandon and Viktoria for the day.<\/p>\n Finally meeting his half brother for the first time, Brandon admitted it was a bit strange.<\/p>\n He said: Initially it was a little awkward but when we sat down to brunch, we realised we had plenty to talk about and catch up on.<\/p>\n We hung out for the entire day and Viktoria and I showed him the sights and drove him around.<\/p>\n Sadly, Ben was just passing through and could only stay for the day, but now the pair have met, theyre not letting each other go again.<\/p>\n Were definitely staying in touch. Its just a case of figuring out who travels to see the other one, Brandon said.<\/p>\n After the whirlwind of the last few years, Brandon still cant quite believe he met his brother through an online DNA kit.<\/p>\n Its like something out of a movie. I cant believe its real, he joked.<\/p>\n When Ben gets older, well have a bit more freedom to meet up, but were definitely going to see each other again.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Read the original here: Growing up, Brandon Tong longed for a brother or sister. Raised by a devoted single mother, Dung (known as Donna) working two jobs to keep the family afloat, he struggled to make friends. [Mum] worked very hard to support me, Brandon, now 26 and from San Diego, told The Mirror. Continue reading
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