{"id":234118,"date":"2017-08-11T15:20:43","date_gmt":"2017-08-11T19:20:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/uncategorized\/claire-saenz-looking-in-the-mirror-and-seeing-the-self-the-good-men-project-blog.php"},"modified":"2017-08-11T15:20:43","modified_gmt":"2017-08-11T19:20:43","slug":"claire-saenz-looking-in-the-mirror-and-seeing-the-self-the-good-men-project-blog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/personal-empowerment\/claire-saenz-looking-in-the-mirror-and-seeing-the-self-the-good-men-project-blog.php","title":{"rendered":"Claire Saenz, Looking in the &#8216;Mirror&#8217; and Seeing the Self &#8211; The Good Men Project (blog)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><p>    Embed from Getty Images  <\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>    Claire Saenz is a SMART Recovery Facilitator for SMART Recovery. It is an addiction    recovery service without a necessary reference to a higher    power or incorporation of a faith, or some faith-based system    into it  by necessity. Those can be used it, but they are not    necessities. The system is about options. In this series, we    look at her story, views, and expertise regarding addiction,    having been an addict herself. This is session 1.  <\/p>\n<p>    Scott Douglas    Jacobsen:When it comes to the    experience of addiction, what were your addiction and    particular substance of choice?  <\/p>\n<p>    Claire Saenz: My substance of choice was    alcohol, which was coupled with an eating disorder and an    anxiety disorder.  <\/p>\n<p>    Jacobsen: What were the thoughts that ran through your    mind as you were working to combat the addiction, to stop using    the substance(s)?  <\/p>\n<p>    Saenz: I was highly motivated when I decided    to stop drinking, so my primary thought, initially, was that I    was going to quit or die trying. I felt determined, but also    extremely vulnerable because giving up alcohol meant that in    many essential ways, I was giving up my sole coping mechanism.  <\/p>\n<p>    Jacobsen: How did SMART Recovery compare to other    services?  <\/p>\n<p>    Saenz: Other services I used in my recovery    were AA, individual therapy, and pharmaceutical treatment of my    anxiety. I found SMART similar to AA in that it is also a peer    support group. I found the social support aspect of both    programs helpful. SMART was drastically different from AA in    almost all other respects, however, and much more like the    individual therapy I received.  <\/p>\n<p>    SMARTs philosophy is one of personal empowerment rather than    reliance on a higher power. The use of stigmatizing labels    such as alcoholic or addict is discouraged. Direct    discussion (cross-talk) among group participants is    encouraged. Sponsorship is not part of the program. Group    facilitators are not professionals, but they are trained in the    SMART tools and meeting facilitation skills, and they are    expected to adhere to a code of ethics.  <\/p>\n<p>    Finally, SMART recognizes that recovery, while a process, is    not necessarily a permanent one. While participants are    encouraged to attend meetings for a significant time period and    to become facilitators to pay it forward, we do not view    recovery as being a permanent state. Instead, we achieve a new    normal.  <\/p>\n<p>    Jacobsen: What were some of the more drastic stories    that you have heard of in your time as an addict, as a    recovering addict, and now as a SMART Recovery    facilitator?  <\/p>\n<p>    Saenz: For the reasons mentioned above, I    dont refer to myself as an addict or alcoholic, recovering    or otherwise. If a label must be applied to my state, call me a    person who has recovered from an addiction to alcohol.  <\/p>\n<p>    As far as drastic stories, they fall into two categories: the    carnage of addiction itself, and the carnage of    one-size-fits-all addiction treatment where the one size is    the twelve- step approach.  <\/p>\n<p>    The carnage of addiction is simply limitless. I have lost    dozens of friends and acquaintances to addiction-related    causes, from organ failure to overdose, to suicide.  <\/p>\n<p>    At one of my first AA meetings, I spent a few minutes talking    to a nice young man who went home that night and hung himself.    I know multiple people who have lost spouses and children to    addiction. It is a dreadful condition that takes the lives of    fine people, and the solutions we currently offer, as a    society, are breathtakingly inadequate.  <\/p>\n<p>    In terms of the consequences of one-size-fits-all treatment, it    should come as no surprise that in a world of individuals,    there will never be an approach to any physical or mental    condition that will work the same way, or as well, for    everyone. And yet for years, we have prescribed the exact same    treatment to everyone with an addictive disorder.  <\/p>\n<p>    Worse, what passes for treatment is often nothing more than    expensive indoctrination into a free support group (12 step    programs, themselves, are free)and if the patient fails to    improve, the prescription ismore 12 step. Of course, this    isnt working. The shocking thing is that we would ever expect    it to work.  <\/p>\n<p>    Jacobsen: How has religion infiltrated the recovery and    addiction services world? Is this good or bad? How so?  <\/p>\n<p>    Saenz: Twelve-step programs, which form the    basis of most traditional treatment, are religious in nature.    Adherents sometimes claim otherwise, but courts in the U.S.    have nearly universally disagreed on that point.  <\/p>\n<p>    As one jurist put it, The emphasis placed on God,    spirituality, and faith in a higher power by twelve-step    programs such as A.A. or N.A. clearly supports a determination    that the underlying basis of these programs is religious and    that participation in such programs constitutes a religious    exercise. It is an inescapable conclusion that coerced    attendance at such programs, therefore, violates the    Establishment Clause.Warburton v.    Underwood, 2 F.Supp.2d 306, 318 (W.D.N.Y.1998).  <\/p>\n<p>    Because they are religious in nature, such programs may not be    the best choice for, and certainly should not the only option    given to, atheists or individuals with an internal locus of    control.  <\/p>\n<p>    Beyond that, the religious atmosphere of the programs can, and    sometimes does breed an environment where seasoned members of    the program become almost like gurus, given an almost    clergy-like status and an inordinate amount of power over newer    and more vulnerable members. Sometimes this power is used to    exploit. The classic exploitation is sexual13th    stepping is a common euphemism used to describe the practice    of veteran members manipulating newcomers into engaging in    sexual relationshipsbut emotional and financial exploitation    can happen as well.  <\/p>\n<p>    But the most tragic consequence of the infiltration of religion    into addiction treatment is not, in my view, the religious    aspect per se but the fact that the focus on that approach    excludes all others. The real tragedy is that people are dying    because they are never even told of other approaches that might    help them.  <\/p>\n<p>    In my own experience, 19 years ago when I sought treatment for    my addiction to alcohol, I was told that the only option for    survival was to become an active AA member. Being the rule    follower I am, I did exactly that. I spent the next nine years    of my life going to AA meetings and attempting to fit my    fundamentally humanist worldview within the confines of that    program.  <\/p>\n<p>    I eventually found this impossible and left the program. In the    aftermath of that, I had to re-examine every thought and belief    I had developed in the time I had been abstinent to determine    whether those thoughts and beliefs were my own or had been    implanted during my AA years. I found this an extraordinarily    painful process, in many ways as painful as quitting in the    first place.  <\/p>\n<p>    When I found SMART Recovery and realized that it had been    possible, all along, for me to have received social support in    a manner that honored who I was a person, I cried. I thought    not only of myself and all the pain Id gone through because I    wasnt told of other options besides AA but of all the others    who had experienced the same thing.  <\/p>\n<p>    This would be equally true regardless of the specifics of the    treatment being offered because there is no one approach that    is right for everyone. The real tragedy is the pain that has    been caused, and the lives that have been lost, because one    approach has become too dominant.  <\/p>\n<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>    Photo Credit: Getty Images  <\/p>\n<p>    Scott Douglas Jacobsen founded In-Sight Publishing and    In-Sight: Independent Interview-Based Journal. He works as an    Associate Editor and Contributor for Conatus News, Editor and    Contributor to The Good Men Project, a Board Member, Executive    International Committee (International Research and Project    Management) Member, and as the Chair of Social Media for the    Almas Jiwani Foundation, Executive Administrator and Writer for    Trusted Clothes, and Councillor in the Athabasca University    Students Union. He contributes to the Basic Income Earth    Network, The Beam, Canadian Students for Sensible Drug Policy,    Check Your Head, Conatus News, Humanist Voices, The Voice    Magazine, and Trusted Clothes. If you want to contact Scott:    [emailprotected];    website: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.in-sightjournal.com\" rel=\"nofollow\">http:\/\/www.in-sightjournal.com<\/a>; Twitter:    <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/InSight_Journal\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/twitter.com\/InSight_Journal<\/a>.  <\/p>\n<p><!-- Auto Generated --><\/p>\n<p>Read more here: <\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/claire-saenz-1-sjbn\/\" title=\"Claire Saenz, Looking in the 'Mirror' and Seeing the Self - The Good Men Project (blog)\">Claire Saenz, Looking in the 'Mirror' and Seeing the Self - The Good Men Project (blog)<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> Embed from Getty Images Claire Saenz is a SMART Recovery Facilitator for SMART Recovery. It is an addiction recovery service without a necessary reference to a higher power or incorporation of a faith, or some faith-based system into it by necessity. 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