The U.S. has over 100 independent minyans with different styles, customs and demographics<\/p>\n
Michelle Reyf isnt really a synagogue-goer. Until recently, the 28-year-old New Yorker, who works for a Jewish nonprofit, was perfectly happy to get her spiritual fulfillment at Buddhist prayer services and meditation retreats. <\/p>\n
Synagogue did not appeal to her for a variety of reasons she found the crowd to be older and the atmosphere to be impersonal. And as someone who identifies as queer, she felt distanced from the traditional values she encountered in many Jewish spaces. <\/p>\n
But in January, a friend invited her to attend Shir HaMaalot, an independent minyan, or prayer community, in Brooklyn. There, Reyf found a place that had some of the very same qualities as the Buddhist community she was a part of and that she had not found in traditional Jewish settings. <\/p>\n
Like finding a home <\/p>\n
It feels like finding a home, and it feels like Im not a bad Jew for wanting different things than were being offered in most synagogues and Jewish communities, said Reyf, a senior digital organizer for the Jewish social justice organization Bend the Arc. <\/p>\n
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I thought maybe Judaism isnt for me or maybe Im just not doing it right or maybe Im different or theres something wrong with me that I dont feel like I fit in wherever I go. And then I came to Shir HaMaalot and I was like, These are my people, she told JTA. <\/p>\n
Shir HaMaalot a volunteer-led, nondenominational minyan that defines itself as a traditional-egalitarian havurah meets once a month in Prospect Heights and Crown Heights in Brooklyn, often in space rented and subsidized by a local Reform synagogue, Union Temple of Brooklyn. Following a musical Shabbat service, participants join together for a vegetarian potluck meal. There is no rabbi, and community members take turns leading the services. <\/p>\n
Reyf is part of a cohort of millennial Jews finding spiritual fulfillment at independent minyans rather than in the traditional synagogue. Though the groups vary in prayer style, customs and demographics, many are egalitarian or support increased womens participation in services. They tend to draw a younger crowd than the average synagogue. <\/p>\n
Independent minyans appeal to people looking for a type of religious experience, said Rabbi Elie Kaunfer, author of a book on independent minyans and president of Mechon Hadar, a co-educational, egalitarian institution of Jewish learning based in New York. <\/p>\n
In my experience the people who are not going to synagogue its not because theyre anti-synagogue its more that theyre looking for something, and if the synagogue has it, theyll go there, and if the synagogue doesnt, they wont. And I think thats where Shir HaMaalot comes in, Kaunfer said. <\/p>\n
He noted that Shir HaMaalot, founded in 2011, has a reputation for its use of music. I also think a place gets its own reputation just by who starts going there, Kaunfer said, so when people think about Where am I going to go on Friday night? now they know they have an option thats appealing to people in their age demographic, and that can also build on itself. <\/p>\n
Over 100 nationwide <\/p>\n
There are over 100 independent minyans across the country, and they are especially accessible to millennials who often have yet to make commitments to Jewish institutions, he added. <\/p>\n
What it boils down to in large part is that people in their 20s and early 30s have more flexibility in terms of their social groups and commitments, he said. <\/p>\n
The young crowd at Shir HaMaalot was a draw for Gabriela Geselowitz, a 26-year-old journalist and part-time Hebrew school teacher. Geselowitz knew she wanted to be involved in a Jewish community after college but had assumed she would be the only young person there. <\/p>\n
When I moved to Brooklyn, I said I wanted to be near a Conservative shul, because that is generally traditional egalitarian, and I was sort of prepared to be the only young person at things. I did go to local synagogue a couple of times, and I was the only young person, said Geselowitz, who started attending Shir HaMaalot three and a half years ago. <\/p>\n
At the minyan, Geselowitz found both a crowd around her age and an atmosphere she enjoys. <\/p>\n
This was even better than Hillel in college in terms of enthusiasm and volume of people and what Im looking for. I didnt really expect to find a space that would hit all of my buttons in the way that Shir HaMaalot does, said Geselowitz. <\/p>\n
Melodies, drums, potluck <\/p>\n
The mood described by Geselowitz was evident at a recent Friday evening service, which she attended with her husband Michael Spitzer-Rubenstein, a 27-year-old working to launch a media startup. <\/p>\n
Around 75 people, mostly young professionals with a few older people and young families sprinkled in, sat in chairs set up in concentric circles around the prayer leader, who alternated between singing slow, soulful melodies and more upbeat ones. At various points throughout the service, when the tempo quickened, a young man started playing a djembe drum and people clapped along to the beat. Afterward they gathered around tables in an adjacent room for the potluck. <\/p>\n
The majority of Shir HaMaalot attendees are young, said Russ Agdern, one of the minyans founders and a member of its organizing team. <\/p>\n
It skews towards 20s and 30s, but its certainly not exclusively that, and thats certainly not our intention, said Agdern, 39, director of recruitment and outreach for the Jewish social justice group Avodah. <\/p>\n
Community-driven davening space <\/p>\n
Before the minyan was founded in 2011, there were not really any egalitarian spaces with full Hebrew liturgy in this part of Brooklyn, said Agdern, adding that the founders wanted to create a community-driven davening space. <\/p>\n
The founders were active participants in the National Havurah Committee, a network of nondenominational grassroots Jewish communities. The organization has its origins in the havurah, or fellowship, movement of the late 1960s and 1970s, when an earlier wave of young people sought to create Jewish prayer experiences outside traditional synagogue settings. <\/p>\n
Tobin Belzer, a sociologist of American Jewry at the University of Southern California, believes the difference between the havurah movement and the independent minyans is their attitude toward the Jewish mainstream. Because it was purposely positioned outside of mainstream institutions, the havurah phenomenon was often referred to as the Jewish counterculture. Participants published books and articles criticizing American Judaism, she wrote in a study of the two movements. <\/p>\n
By contrast, minyans represent a subculture, not a counterculture. Independent minyans are not outside of the Jewish mainstream; they are on the margins of it, writes Belzer. In fact, many independent minyans have strong ties with Jewish institutions. Some receive funding from Jewish foundations, others gather in borrowed spaces in synagogues, and still others use Torah scrolls loaned from area congregations. <\/p>\n
Though communities affiliated with the havurah movement vary in practice and affiliation, they are united in being egalitarian, mostly volunteer-run and promoting wide participation by community members. <\/p>\n
Spitzer-Rubinstein likened Shir HaMaalots atmosphere to that of services at Jewish summer camps. <\/p>\n
I went to Reform summer camp in California, and it was a similar sort of joy and celebration in praying, he said. I feel like there are a lot of Jewish spaces where praying isnt seen as something that should be fun, and one of the things that I really like about Shir HaMaalot is that people care about it and make it something significant. <\/p>\n
Jewish youth group energy <\/p>\n
For Geselowitz, Shir HaMaalots energy reminded me a little bit of teenage Jewish youth group. <\/p>\n
The participatory aspect of the minyan appeals to Andrea Birnbaum, a 27-year-old medical student who has been attending Shir HaMaalot for four years. <\/p>\n
Its not performative in the sense that sometimes you go to synagogue and theres someone on the bimah [podium] who has the most energy, and theyre trying to get the crowd moving but the crowd has a low energy, said Birnbaum. Its not like that. This is participatory we rotate every time someone leads the davening, the prayer. <\/p>\n
For now, Geselowitz and Spitzer-Rubenstein, who attend other independent minyans in Brooklyn when Shir HaMaalot doesnt meet, dont feel like they are missing anything by not belonging to a synagogue. <\/p>\n
No dues, just donations <\/p>\n
Shir Hamaalot is free were happy to donate to it, but there arent synagogue dues. At this point in my life I actually like having a lay-led community rather than a single rabbinic authority, Geselowitz said. <\/p>\n
Participants are also attracted to Shir HaMaalots progressive values. <\/p>\n
What also was really cool was that there was a lot of different gender expression, people who werent necessarily [conforming to the gender] binary, and for me as a queer person that was really important to see that it isnt a heteronormative place where the gender binary was being enforced, Reyf said. <\/p>\n
On its website, Shir HaMaalot encourages people to add your preferred pronouns to your name tag. <\/p>\n
Pluralism is an important goal for the minyan, said Gregory Frumin, a 35-year-old social worker who serves on the minyans organizing team. <\/p>\n
One of Shir HaMaalots core values is inclusive pluralism. We want to create an accessible and welcoming space for people of diverse backgrounds, identities, accessibility needs, he said. <\/p>\n
At the potluck dinner after services, food is served on three different tables vegetarian, vegan and vegetarian cooked in a strictly kosher kitchen. Participants are also asked to list allergens on a spreadsheet prior to services. <\/p>\n
I think its also important that Shir HaMaalot takes their religious observance seriously while still being welcoming to basically everyone, said Spitzer-Rubinstein. <\/p>\n
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