{"id":229458,"date":"2017-07-22T02:50:44","date_gmt":"2017-07-22T06:50:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/uncategorized\/not-meeting-your-goals-huffpost.php"},"modified":"2017-07-22T02:50:44","modified_gmt":"2017-07-22T06:50:44","slug":"not-meeting-your-goals-huffpost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/mind-upload\/not-meeting-your-goals-huffpost.php","title":{"rendered":"Not meeting your goals &#8211; HuffPost"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><p>      I gave up daily vlogging recently. On      January 1, 2017, I announced Id start uploading a video      every single day. There was no end in mind. Some people have      taken on this challenge and lasted days. Some people have      lasted years. I lasted a little over 3 months.    <\/p>\n<p>      The breaking point was a company meetup at Highrise,      a simple CRM company I took over from Basecamp in 2014. Our      meetup was just a handful of days. But those days were      optimized to spend every minute possible together since were      all working remotely the rest of the year.    <\/p>\n<p>      There was a lot of great footage from the meetup, but I      didnt have any time to edit fun stories together. Or think      about pacing. Add music.    <\/p>\n<p>      I shot YouTube live videos to at least get something out and      keep my commitment to the daily vlog, but my YouTube stats      started to tank.    <\/p>\n<p>      So, I decided to focus on creating better videosones I      thought could get the most likes and viewsfor each and      every upload. My daily vlog became a barely weekly vlog.      Sometimes Id get two videos done in a week. Sometimes none.    <\/p>\n<p>      And I started disliking the project more and more.    <\/p>\n<p>      On the first day of my Sophomore year in high school, there      was a welcome students event in our auditorium. I was      barely paying attention but heard my name called out. Ugh,      whats this about? The dread became surprise and then elation      when they announced I had the highest grade point average so      far of our entire class of 400+ kids. Woah. I was not      expecting that.    <\/p>\n<p>      With this newfound ability to compete at having the highest      grade point average, I just wanted to keep competing. Could I      be my high school valedictorian in a few years?    <\/p>\n<p>      That Sophomore year, I was in an AP (Advanced Placement) art      class. For some reason the teachers and I did not get along.      And I guess I didnt have much talent with the art      assignments. It showed in my grade for the class. My hopes      for valedictorian were evaporating. It felt awful.    <\/p>\n<p>      Junior year rolled around, and work just got harder. More      tough classes, even less time for school work with all the      extracurricular activities I was doing. My goal of having the      best grades got worse.    <\/p>\n<p>      But then I started making better friends with this guy, Al      Wyman. Al and I had known each other since basketball camp in      grade school. When we found ourselves in the same ethics      class Junior year, we began talking more and more.    <\/p>\n<p>      Those talks changed something in me. Wed banter back and      forth about the books we were reading (or supposed to be      reading for class) from the likes of Herman Hesse or Camus.      And I realized how much I enjoyed our chats about school      work. Not the competition for grades. But the act of      learning, debate, application.    <\/p>\n<p>      Why was I so focused on grades, when I should be more focused      on the act of education?    <\/p>\n<p>      In that ethics class, there was a project about the famous      Edward Hopper painting Nighthawks: Redraw the painting and      write an essay of whose in our version and why.    <\/p>\n<p>      I experimented with the idea that maybe I could just focus on      learning and enjoying the experience instead of getting the      best grade.    <\/p>\n<p>      But there was a catch. There wasnt enough time to thoroughly      tackle this project without pulling yet another all nighter.      So I just didnt do it when the teacher wanted it done.    <\/p>\n<p>      After the project was due, I finally had an opportunity to      focus on getting the project done and give it my all,      learning even more about the original painting, and about the      people I felt interesting enough to belong in my version. I      turned the project in a couple days later and felt great      about what I had learned and produced.    <\/p>\n<p>      What happened was kind of a surprise. The teacher took it,      looking at me a bit quizzically. I said, Sorry I couldnt      turn this in on time. But here is my work. I hope I can still      get some credit for it.    <\/p>\n<p>      A few days later he gave it back to me, with a great grade on      iteven accounting for the points he took off for turning      it in late.    <\/p>\n<p>      It taught me a valuable lesson. I could still perform well      without actually focusing on that as a goal. Really, I needed      to take care of myself, and commit to a system of learning,      not a goal of the best grades.    <\/p>\n<p>      My time in highschool got so much better after that. There      were multiple projects I started turning in late so I could      get more sleep. And I learned so much more in the process.    <\/p>\n<p>      I still ended up with a really high average when I graduated.      I wasnt the valedictorian. I was close, but it didnt matter      anymore. That last year and a half of high school was some of      the best time of my life, and I got so much out of it.    <\/p>\n<p>      If I look back at my career, the best moments are when I      repeated what I did in high schoolfocus on systems, not      goals. If I focused too much on where my startup would be      when I wanted it to be there, I was miserable. When I focused      on just showing up, learning as much as I could, delivering      things our customers wanted on a regular basis, I enjoyed it,      and we still got great results.    <\/p>\n<p>      My first Y Combinator startup from 2006 didnt      turn into the mega-success I had envisioned, but became an      enjoyable ride that still propelled my career forward and      turned into even better and brighter things for others as      well.    <\/p>\n<p>      I had a goal with Y Combinator in 2011 to create a      Groupon-sized success. Again I became miserable. Until I      instead focused on a system of creating things that met needs      I understood well because I had them myself.    <\/p>\n<p>      That led to Draft, simple writing and version control      software. It wasnt the thing I envisioned making in 2011,      but the system got me what Id call a pretty wild success.    <\/p>\n<p>      Now I run Highrise. The founders of Basecamp handed      me the reigns when they wanted to spin it off. That was never      a goal. How could it be? No one could have made it an      intention. But this system of showing up every day and      creating new things regularly got me here.    <\/p>\n<p>      Staring at my YouTube stats was a mistake. Theres so much to      getting traction, and so much of it isnt under my control.    <\/p>\n<p>      What I can focus on is showing up every day. Filming. Editing      (when I can). Getting on camera. Trying to find a story from      the day even if it doesnt work out.    <\/p>\n<p>      I sure as hell enjoy it more. And I think I might still get      great results. Maybe not what I envisioned at first. But it      seems like things have a way of working themselves out.    <\/p>\n<p>    The Morning Email  <\/p>\n<p>    Wake up to the day's most important news.  <\/p>\n<p><!-- Auto Generated --><\/p>\n<p>The rest is here:<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/not-meeting-your-goals_us_59724c4ee4b06b511b02c322\" title=\"Not meeting your goals - HuffPost\">Not meeting your goals - HuffPost<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> I gave up daily vlogging recently. On January 1, 2017, I announced Id start uploading a video every single day.  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/mind-upload\/not-meeting-your-goals-huffpost.php\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"limit_modified_date":"","last_modified_date":"","_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-229458","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mind-upload"],"modified_by":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229458"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=229458"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229458\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=229458"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=229458"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.euvolution.com\/futurist-transhuman-news-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=229458"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}