Dear Harriette: My son is 6 years old, and he recently started calling me by my first name. I am old-fashioned: I want him to call me Mommy. Its like one day he woke up and realized my name isnt actually Mommy, and he went around the house chanting it. The more I protest, the more he says my name. What should I do? I want to teach him to have good manners. When I was growing up, I would have gotten a spanking for calling my mother by her first name. I am not sure how to handle this. A Name<\/p>\n
Dear A Name: Rather than fighting with your 6-year-old, give him a bit to claim your name. He is learning. It may be a source of fascination to him that his mother has a name other than Mommy. If you stop reacting so much and trying to control him, he will likely calm down all by himself.<\/p>\n
When his fascination subsides, you may want to let him know when it is smart to use your proper name. I learned this the hard way when my daughter was about your sons age. She had somehow gotten outside when I was in the doctors office. The door self-locked, and she was calling out, Mommy! Mommy! Since I was certain that my child was playing in the waiting room, I didnt really hear her cries. The building manager rescued her, so all ended up well. What I realized is that in case of emergency, it is much better for a child to call out the mothers name rather than Mommy because every mothers name is Mommy. At that moment, my young daughter learned when to use what name. I hope you never have such a scare, but it is wise to tell your children that in time of need, call out your real name.<\/p>\n
Dear Harriette: My friend, Jeff, was recently diagnosed with diabetes. He is single and apparently has not been taking good care of himself. Some other friends and I agreed that we are going to help him get healthy by taking turns making food for him. We all live nearby. I wish we could also teach him how to cook, but now that we have social distancing, it seems like an impossible task. What do you recommend? Healthy Tips<\/p>\n
Dear Healthy Tips: Its wonderful that you and your friends are prepared to help Jeff get healthy. It will mean a lot to him, at least during these early days of learning to eat differently, if others are providing him with food. But you are right: In order to maintain a healthy lifestyle, he needs to learn to do it for himself.<\/p>\n
Consider teaching him to cook with Zoom classes. You can be in your kitchen, and he can be in his. You can read the ingredients with him and go step-by-step through the recipes. You can make dishes together, virtually, while maintaining a healthy distance. The bonus is that it should be fun!<\/p>\n
Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com<\/a> or c\/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n <\/p>\n See more here: Dear Harriette: My son is 6 years old, and he recently started calling me by my first name. I am old-fashioned: I want him to call me Mommy. Its like one day he woke up and realized my name isnt actually Mommy, and he went around the house chanting it. Continue reading
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